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Lost luv life,
| Fri, 08-27-2004 - 10:55pm |
Ive been going out with my girlfriend for a little over 10 months, the past 2 months however she hasnt wanted to have sex or fool around, shes even said that she doesnt like kissing me anymore. Im only 17 and shes 16, some might say we are 2 young 4 this stuff, others that we are at our peack sexual life. My concern comes from that we have been fooling around for atleast 7 months and i never thought we had any problems. She says she still loves me and that she just doesnt ever feel like fooling around. I care for her so much and i would stay with her 4 ever evan if we dont gain much of a love life, its just that i feel that she has lost her feelings for me. Other then that we have had a few problems but still enjoy our time together, we see eachother atleast once a week by ourselfs and nerly everyday at school.
What should i do? and how should i react to this?
What should i do? and how should i react to this?

Pianoguy doesn't want to pick on you, but have you ever considered the possibility that your 16-year old sex partner WANTS A LOT MORE THAN THAT! Maybe she feels that the only activities you have together (as a couple) take place in the bedroom?
While YOU may be perfectly happy with this arrangement, I'll bet she's getting pressure from her parents and friends to DUMP you? And frankly...she might want to "free herself" in order to date other men who MAY have more to offer her than you do?
Pianoguy
Pianoguy suggests that you ask your g/f:
1. Are you happy with "us" right now?
2. What would you like me to do that I'm not doing?
3. Is the SEX making you uncomfortable...or worried that you'll end up pregnant? (Of course...you can always follow this up with...ARE YOU PREGNANT?).
4. Would you feel better if we gave each other "a little space" from each other?
Those are 4 questions you can ask her...but I'm sure you can think of a few more?
Pianoguy
Pianoguy was NEVER a "Seinfeld" fan..."but there's nothing wrong with that!" (Sorry Jerry)!
In an earlier posting on one of these boards, I explained that this was my writing style. 3rd person to first person...and occasionally back to 3rd.
And I'm sure if any of my former English grammar teachers are still alive...they'd make a big deal out of it!
Pianoguy.....who, by the way, thinks your name is very cool and mysterious!