Casual dating : dos/don'ts?
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| Mon, 08-30-2004 - 11:44am |
I recently moved to this city and am very interested in meeting new people and 'dating' a lot of guys just to have fun, mingle, and meet new people. I am interested in dating seriously (physically involved) if the chemistry is there, and I am not interested in casual sex.
I am a very honest person and tell people what I am thinking, yet sometimes these guys get mad that I am 'so busy', nor do I want them to think I am sleeping around.
How do I date a lot of guys, have fun, and let them know I am into 'being single right now'/ 'dating casually', and let them know I AM INTERESTED without them thinking I am being a player or stringing them along, etc?..... and keeping their interest in me?
I'd like to get guy's / gal's suggestions on this.
Thanks

You show you're interested by being enthusiastic when they call and when you're out with them.
You can't do anything about them thinking you are sleeping around, other than show them what your character is by your behavior with them.
Sheri
I agree. I think it is rude, and well, none of their business.....and not necessary to discuss. I try to just say "I have plans" if I am busy, etc. I act interested and have fun with the ones that I am interested in....I've just had some guys get bent out of shape if you don't revolve your life around them, or get turned off when they sense you are dating others as well. Some think that I am not interested if I am not chasing them down (which, I think is b.s.). lol
Just trying to maximize my fun and dating options....hoping to meet cool guy for me.
Thanks for input.