had a date saturday night
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| Mon, 08-30-2004 - 1:19pm |
He picked me up at 7:30, then we went out to eat. I guess it was a little awkward right at the beginning of dinner, but the conversation seemed to flow pretty smoothly...i was a bit nervous though. Dinner was nice, then we ended up going to a bar closeby after. we stayed there for a while, i only had 2 drinks, so did he and again we talked a lot. He asked me if i wanted to go to this bar near where he lives which is famous for being in a certain movie and i'd never been there before so i said sure. When we left the first bar i noticed that he held my hand a few times which i thought was cute. He is kind of quiet, and is personality is somewhat quirky i guess, he can be kind of sarcastic.
So we go to that bar, had one drink, then left. we were within walking distance from his place and he asked me if i wanted to come up for a 'nightcap.' I know you are all thinking that I should have just ended the night right there and had him drive me home, but the night was young and so am i, so into his place i went. His place was really nice, but i didnt say much about it. We sat on the couch and of course started making out-i had already made out with him the week before at the party so it only seemed natural to do it again. He is a really good kisser.
He tried to do more, and not to be gross but i had my period so i said no. He then asked if i wanted to just to bed. I asked if he thought less of me if i stayed over and he just laughed and was like, why would you think that? So we just ended up making out, then passed out basically. He woke up early the next morning and we just cuddled for a while...then we started hooking up again. Then he started making comments about me not touching his dick to the point where i honestly felt like a prude. I ended up giving him a hand job...
As we were going to sleep last nigth, we made some bet, i dont remember what it was but he was like, you lost that means you have to take me out to dinner on our next date. THen he said somethign else like, well if i call you again, which i most likely will...he said that twice.
so he drove me home at around 11 or noon. The conversation on the way home went well, i thanked him for dinner and the drinks, he was like, i hope you enjoyed yourself, i said i did...then when we got to my place we kissed goodbye and he was like, well enjoy the rest of your day and the rest of your week....I dont get guys....i jsut dont. He said nothing like, well i will give you a call or do you want to go out again. Maybe he doesnt want to go out again is what i am thinking. but i thought we had a good time...then i'm thinking maybe he feels he didnt get enough action and doesnt want to bother with me again.
I told a mutual friend of ours what happened and she was like, oh i'm sure he'll call...but i dont know. I mean he said the night before that he'd call and was saying all that stuff about me having to take him out next, then throughout the night he made one or two comments about getting a second date. But to me, when you drop someone off that is key...he said nothing about calling me or going out again. what do you think?

Think about it.
It's your body and you have a right to say no.
Alison
Edited 8/30/2004 4:55 pm ET ET by secretiger
I know this may sound harsh... I hope he does *not* call you. If he does, and you choose to see him, expect more of the same. Consider yourself spared from the throes of agony if you don't hear from him again.
Respect yourself.
A~