Early stage! Any advice Pls!!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-19-2004
Early stage! Any advice Pls!!!!!
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Mon, 08-30-2004 - 7:38pm
Hi, everyone

I am going out with a guy who I knew online. At first, I wasn't very sure about my feelings. But now I am feeling that I would like to know him more upon the time goes. We went out last 2 Friday nights & Saturday. We are almost talking on the phone every day. I used to go out with another guy (A) who suddenly broke up with me & went back to his pervious girlfriend after several very nice & sweet dates. I am starting to worry about my current date (B) now. I don't want that kind of things happen to me again. - He (A) is chasing when he is not sure what I think. He felt still being attached by his exgf & went back to her when my feeling about him is starting to grow. Here is my question, what should I do in the early stage of dating? How can I keep him (B) chasing but still know that I am interested? I found that guys like chasing, don't they? They probably only value girls who are hard to get. To be honest, I even don't know what kind of questions I can ask. Any advice about early stage dating will be appreciated.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-23-2003
Mon, 08-30-2004 - 10:00pm

Playing "hard to get" is not the key. The key to gaining and keeping someone's interest is to be an interesting person.

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