Is he interested?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-27-2003
Is he interested?
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Wed, 09-01-2004 - 9:55am
Help! I recently ran into an old acquaintance. A bunch of us got together for drinks later that week and it seemed that the two of us hit it off. But, I haven't heard from him since then. I sent him an email (don't have his digits) the next day, just to kid around about how late I got home and how much fun the evening was, and I haven't heard a peep.

Ok, I guess he really just isn't interested. But, I really like him. How can I get him to be interested. (oh my this is just getting pathetic isn't it?) At least sympathize with me. I guess I don't really need any advice. I just need a big hug. bleh.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
In reply to: pongo26
Wed, 09-01-2004 - 5:57pm
Give it a few days and try emailing him again, this time with your phone number. If he doesn't send a reply or call, then he's not interested- but at least you can say you tried.

Alison

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-15-2003
In reply to: pongo26
Wed, 09-01-2004 - 6:29pm
I wouldn't call him or slip your number in another email. If you want to make sure he got your email, just wait 3 or 4 days and then send something like

"hey, no response! :) ~ hope your day is going well, takin' a break myself. Let me know how everything is going with u!"

if he still doesn't respond, that's your answer.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-01-2003
In reply to: pongo26
Wed, 09-01-2004 - 6:54pm
Oh Pongo!!

No advice from me, but tons of hugs (((((((HUG)))))). I do know how you feel though, and how when we actually write this stuff down, the stuff we want, it sounds... well... you know how it sounds, but we can't help WANTING these things. Damn. Hugs to me too. :D