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Closure?
| Tue, 09-07-2004 - 12:43pm |
How do I get closure from a relationship that still seems to have so many possibilities? My boyfriend and I broke up our 3 year relationship this past weekend. I am still in love with him despite all his faults. We didn't have a clear reason for the break up. He was seeking out other women emotionally and I was upset that he'd ditch me for his friends. When we did spend time together though, everything was absolutely wonderful. We haven't talked since the breakup but I can't help feeling like we will get back together when I know that I should be moving on. I am very close with his family and they have been really upset at the way he's been acting to me recently. Someone help me please!
~Cyndee
~Cyndee

Why do most women ALWAYS need to have "closure?" Pianoguy has never been able to figure this out...especially since the possibility of being "REUNITED" (quoting Peaches & Herb here) exists!
2 or 3 Days is hardly sufficient time to make a permanent judgement call about whether a relationship is actually over or not! Give the man 2 weeks to calm down...and if you still haven't heard from him...fire off a nice "snail mail friendship card" to his home address, along with a short note! If you want to rekindle the romance...emphasize how badly you feel about the breakup. If you just want to remain neutral...ask him how things are going and avoid the "mushy stuff!"
Here's the most important thing:
DON'T discuss this situation with others...time often heals all wounds! .
I've probably written more than my usual share of responses today! Sorry!
Pianoguy