i need 2hint 2 a guy that i love him!!!!

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Registered: 09-08-2004
i need 2hint 2 a guy that i love him!!!!
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Wed, 09-08-2004 - 7:24pm
im a teen but i do truly know when i am in love i feel like im floating when i c him or even talk 2 him. when we r sad we cry 2gether and im sure hes not gay but a lot of girls like him bcuz hes really nice but they dont like him ina romantic setting. im just turning 16 and i said i was in love before but now i know what love feels like i know that i didnt love them. ne ways i want 2 go w/ him 2 homecoming and i dont know how 2 express 2 him that im interested in him. does ne 1 know what i should do??? im desprate!





<3 Rock Star Felicia

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 09-09-2004 - 4:17pm
Lesson #1 that will serve you well throughout your dating life: Guys don't get hints. Ask him directly to take you to the dance.
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Registered: 05-05-2003
Thu, 09-09-2004 - 5:10pm
I am going to agree with charite. If you don't come right out and say it, the guy will never know. Men are THICK sometimes, and just don't see the little hints and flirts a girl will make. So what to do? Ask him if he had a date yet for the dance, cause you were wondering if he wanted to go with you. He will either say he's not going, already has a date, or decline your offer. If it's either a or b, then fine, but if he declines, then you'll know he's not interested in you.

good luck!

Alison

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 09-09-2004 - 5:19pm
You're right Alison - we men are THICK at times. LOL. We don't understand female hints very well at all. God knows how many I have missed over the years ;-)

The thing is, most men are task and results focused. When a woman floats a hint out of left field we have a very hard time connecting the dots between the hint and a task or result. It just doesn't compute in most men's head.

The best way to talk to a man is:

1 - Be self-responsible

2 - Be a leader of your own life

3 - Know what you want, need and expect

4 - Ask directly, clearly and concisely

We can deal with that and you will get most of your desired results if you approach us in that manner.