Single for the rest of my life(I'm 18)
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Single for the rest of my life(I'm 18)
| Thu, 09-09-2004 - 12:43am |
Hi my name is Brandii and I am currently a freshmen in a big university. I am 5 foot 2 and not totally hot, but okay looking. I have never been kissed (next month I turn 19), and only had a boyfriend once, he had a nasty temper so it didn't end well. I always seem to pick the losers. Anyways, I think I have a fear of abandonment and I think its why I won't allow myself to open up to any man. Please give me advice. Thanks.

Pianoguy thinks you should FORGET about being married (or even acquiring a steady b/f) and ENJOY COLLEGE! The 4 years or more can be AN ABSOLUTE BLAST! And you know something, you'll meet such a diverse group of men (who have various interests and come from various backgrounds) that you'll get a "BETTER IDEA" of what REALLY want when it's time to choose a husband. (And Pianoguy is convinced that it's the woman who REALLY does the choosing, not the man)! It's amazing how easy it is for some of us to 'gravitate' toward a woman who ISN'T "Totally Hot!"
Please don't judge all of us based on the lousy temper of a past b/f. Many of us are actually very cuddly...and sweet!
Pianoguy