I Just Can't Believe It

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-10-2004
I Just Can't Believe It
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Fri, 09-10-2004 - 12:10pm
I was with this guy for four years. We have been through a lot together. I can honestly say that I loved him, and we had even discussed future plans together. I have felt like something wasn't right in our relationship for a while. When I asked him if there was something going on with him he assured me there wasn't. I have caught him in some very questionable situations with other women, but somehow he always talked his way out of it. I guess I loved him so much that I was a fool and believed him.

Last week I noticed that he was more interested in me than usual, and wanted to go out and do different things. We went to the movies, dinner and a cook out with him. A found out a few days ago that he has been lying to me, and has a girl pregnant. I only know this because I talked to the girl myself. Not only is she pregnant, but she is also living there with him. They have only been together for four months and she's a month pregnant. She also has two kids that don't live with her. I can't understand how he hid her for so long and why? Why he couldn't just come clean and tell me the truth? There are no words to describe how hurt I am. He keeps trying to call but I have nothing else to say...ever. How do I get over this?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
Fri, 09-10-2004 - 12:23pm
One day at a time.

You can only not take his calls and just stay away from him. It was his choice to play with fire, and now he has to deal with not only losing you, but having a baby as well. Leave him be and hopefully he'll be there for the mother and the new baby. That's the most you can hope here. You are better off without him.

Alison

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