Shoudn't have but have!
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| Mon, 09-13-2004 - 12:45pm |
I recently met this guy who was (and I am not sure about now) crazy about me and completely attracted to me. We got along pretty well and have few things in common. He's really intelligent and is a good conversationalist and maybe, a little shy as well. Has a good profession (a lawyer), comes from a good family background, well knowledgeable and sweet.
We have a few friends in common as well. Unfortunately, a girlfriend of mine knows him and has told me some bad stuff about him. And the things she told me, I found it hard to believe as he looks really decent and all that. But being a street wise person, I wouldn't want to judge a book by its covers either. And I don't really trust what she has told me but wanted to see and find out for myself as well. The only thing that I did wrong was that I told him some of the things that people has said about him (I did not mention any names but made it general).
He was flabbergasted by the rumors and sorta acted differently to me after that. Despite the fact that I told him that I don't believe in what others has to say but I know its still in his mind.
Now, I find myself attracted to this guy. But becoz of what I have informed him about the rumors, he's backed off a little and I don't know what to do.
He's a good potential as a boyfriend. Seriously! And I don't know how to make him turn around and come back to me. We're not in a relationship at the moment, but what I've told him has sorta screwed things up a little.
Please tell me what to do!

The first question is: are you at all concerned that this rumor could be true?
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I guess it might have hurt his ego a little and that was a mistake I have made. But I can't do anything about it except to see if he's still keen? So, I should back off then?
Terrible mistake I have made but admitted to it as well!
Thanks for advicing me! Well, I really don't know what are my friend's intentions of telling me all those nasty stuff about him but I really think that they got it all wrong and they might have just heard one side of the story!
I really like this guy...he's really nice and sincere so far that I know him.
Saw him this evening! And he actually remembered exactly how long we have know each other from tomorrow onwards! Should've seen my face when he told me. I completely lost count of how long we've known each other! And he wants to celebrate at the same place where we met tomorrow!
Sometimes, I feel that I have lost touch with the "dating game" as I was in a long relationship for awhile and haven't met any new potentials. Advice me how should I go about with this guy pls? I really don't want to lose this potential guy. I think it can work out if it really does happens!