am I getting played?
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am I getting played?
| Fri, 03-17-2006 - 5:54pm |
So the guy who broke it off with me ( we dated for a month and a haf)decided that he could not help but think about me and he asked to see me. We went out and things were a bit ackward but when we got back to my place we talked and it was great. We ended up cuddling for hours and making out for hours and he didn't try to sleep with me. He says he freaked out when I walked out on him that one time and that we moved too fast when we started dating ( it was like 5 times a week) . He says he wants to take it slow because he's a cauteous type of person he's afraid of getting hurt and it takes him some time to fully appreciate the person he is dating.....So far we have gone on one date since he asked to see me again...he calls me every other day...We IM everyday and he's asking me out this weekend on one date....I know he likes me but I'm just afraid he's not that into me and that he's keeping me on the back burner until someone better comes along. I know he will be leaving in 3 months for 3 months for work so I guess that's why he doesn't want me to be his girlfriend and date casually. Is it possible he's really into me but that he doesn't want to be because he's afraid he's going to get hurt? I always thought if a man knows what he wants he has to have it and throws caution to the wind and makes sure to lock down the girl he's dating so no other guys can have her. I dont' want to get played. Do I withold the sex until I make sure he's not in it for the sex? I know that he's not one of those guys who would sleep with multiple people and he's a good man from what I can gather.Please help.
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| Sat, 03-18-2006 - 9:51am |
It's possible that he got scared when you started dating 5 days a week from the beginning. THAT is scary. Now he wants to date you again, but slowly getting to know you. What's wrong with that? You want get to know him, right, so what better occasion than this one? Go out with friends and then with him. Don't get attached to him so quickly. You don't know him at all...how do you know he's not the person who will sleep around? You don't know. He goes away in 3 months and will be back in three months. You can still see him, but you can still date other guys as well. Don't get wrapped around one guy you met, date others so you can compare and know what YOU want. Regarding sex, do waht feels right for you.
