Not sure what to do???

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Registered: 03-19-2006
Not sure what to do???
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Sun, 03-19-2006 - 7:49pm
Hi all...I was wondering if someone can give me their opinion and advice on this situation. Well, I have been single again for about a month now, as I was dating someone for 5 months but it didn't work out, but anyway, so I meet this guy at Happy hour 2 weeks ago. We got to talking, and then he asked me if he could call me. I said yes. He had told me he was from another state originally but now lived about an hour and a half from me now and has for about 2 years or so. I met his friend that was with him that night too, he seemed nice also. SO I gave him my cell #. He seemed pretty nice. I didn't get his number because I figured I wanted him to call me if he was interested. So, a week goes by and he calls me the next Saturday. We chatted for about half an hour & thought the conversation went well. Then he said we should meet for dinner/drinks one day. I said oh yeah, okay! Then we spoke some more and he said have a nice rest of the weekend and I'll talk to you later. He never gave me his #, but it popped up on my cell phone caller ID. So, I thought he would just call me again and set up a date. Well the question is, it's now been a week later and he has not called again. Do I call him and say hello even though he never actually gave me his #, or I just tell him it popped up and wanted to say hello? Or do I just wait to see if he calls again still? Am I supposed to be calling him now? Not sure what to do??? This may seem silly but just don't know what to do! Help! Thanks!!! :o)
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2004
Sun, 03-19-2006 - 9:47pm
I would let him call you. In the meantime, I'd continue to go out with your friends, have fun, and flirt!
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2006
Sun, 03-19-2006 - 10:00pm
You should definitely give him more time to call you back. It took him a week last time, so give him time this time and he'll get back to you. Don't live your life waiting on a call! Get out and have fun!
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Registered: 03-19-2006
Sun, 03-19-2006 - 10:35pm
Thank you all so much!! I appreciate it! I just wanted to make sure i wasn't doing anything wrong here. I was thinking all that you said but just wasn't quite sure! I wanted to run it by all of you to see what u thought & because I know you give very good advice here! I feel releived that I'm not doing anything wrong!! :o) I am trying to get out there as much as I can having fun and flirting!! I guess this one just kinda sparked my attention a little more then any others and didn't want to do anything wrong...so we'll see what happens!! Thanks again so much! I'll keep you posted on my dating adventures!!! LOL!!