Las Vegas stripbars with boyfriend????
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Las Vegas stripbars with boyfriend????
| Tue, 03-21-2006 - 1:50am |
Just wondering how the girls feel about stripbars...Going to Las Vegas with my boyfriend of one year and we plan on going to a nice show there etc and generally have a good/romantic time...I've teased him a couple of times now about how he "needs" to go to one of those giant stripclub to get his "boobfetish" ( the kind every man has) out of the way etcetc although of course I'm jealous if he would go but I'm trying to be "generous"..he says if he really "needed" to go he could do it in Seattle too and it's not the same now as when he was younger...yeah right!! What would you guys do? Have him go alone for an hour or so? go with him?( which I would absolutely hate) I really hate the idea of lapdances the most!!! not mention it again and not go? let him go and go to a Chippendale show for yourself...decisions, decisions..I know he's trying to be nice and does not want to upset me so he says he does not want to go..I'm sure if he was with one of his buddies from work he would, although he said he only did it once right after he was divorced three years ago...

To be fair, if he wanted to go, I would let him. I would happily go along if he wanted me to or go off and do something by myself. Ive never much worried about men at strip clubs even if my guy did get a lapdance which I know he did when we first got together as he told me about it. And as he says, there is nothing sexy about a naked woman gyrating around on top of him when you can't do anything about it especially if you have all your buddies by your side. I would like to go with him and actually pay for him to have a lapdance that I could watch but then, it has been said before that Im very weird. Im more worried when he goes out to a normal club to be honest as the women there are often more predatory and free to do whatever they want. The women at these stripclubs are just after money and a lot of these places don't allow the clients to touch or have anything "extra" apart from the normal dancing and lapdances. If you would hate to go though, then you shouldnt as this would probably show and would ruin it for him.
Dont bring it up again but if he mentions it then just say you are uncomfortable with the idea but he is free to do what he wants should he wish to give it a try. As he says, he doesnt need to go to Las Vegas to visit a strip club. Or if you really have a problem with him going, then let him know. Just be honest and he will respect your wishes.
And next time, don't tease him about going as you may just get what you asked for even though you didn't actually mean it.