Called day after sex then nothing?????

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Registered: 01-04-2004
Called day after sex then nothing?????
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Thu, 03-23-2006 - 3:03pm
I'm so confused so hopefully someone can shed some light on this for me. I met this guy almost two months ago we hung out that whole night & he called the very next day & the day after that then he met me out on another night when I was with friends & then another night he came to my hosue & cooked me dinner & then he took me out to dinner last saturday & we had sex. He called the next evening & left me a message saying he had a wonderful time. I called him back 4 hours later & I have not heard from him since. So last ngiht I went to a baseball game with my friends & I called him when I got home cause I was tipsy & it was on my mind of course. We had a cutesie conversation cause he was a bit tipsy himself. He said he really enjoyed the other night & he asked if we were gonna get together soon. that was it cause I was tired & had to go to bed. I'm just wondering if this is normal behavior when you first start seeing someone. I guess I'm use to men actually calling more often and maybe that is not normal in the begining. I've had a habit of jumping into things in the past so I'm wondering what is normal when it comes to communication in the begining phases of dating & getting to know someone?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 3:58pm

I think a reasonable expectation would have been for him to call you by yesterday or today to set up another date for this weekend. I don't like the sound of him saying "when are we going to get together again"...that sounds a little too booty call/FWB-ish to me, not like "dating" talk.

What did you say when he asked you that?

Sheri

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 4:24pm
He should be calling you, don't call him from this point on whether tipsy or sober.
It's still early days and you want him to court you
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Registered: 01-04-2004
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 8:27pm
At this point I feel like he's just interested in me for the sex which I'm not interested in at all. Next time I know not to sleep with someone even if I think the feeling is mutual. He obviously doesn't want to "date" me just like I don't want to have sex with him without more of a dating towards something kind of situation.
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Registered: 01-12-2005
Wed, 03-29-2006 - 12:20pm
Well, as much as it stings that this happened, at least now you know more about your own boundaries and guidelines, and that's a

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