i need to meet this cute guy !
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i need to meet this cute guy !
| Mon, 04-03-2006 - 5:56pm |
There's this guy at my college who is in one of my classes and who i find very cute. In the class we have together we are about 300 students, but he's been sitting right in front of me for weeks.
last friday we were in another new bigger room so he sat elsewhere, but i think he realized i was often looking in his direction and we locked eyes a few times. at the end of the class, he just stood there looking in my direction again. but i couldn't at least try to walk in his direction because a friend had something to show me, so he left.
tomorrow i think i'll get to see him again and i would really like to talk to him, but i've never flirted with a total stranger before and i'm kinda shy ! what should i do ?
i've been single for so long now, i might be willing to try something a little more adventorous than just doing nothing lol ! help me before i get too desperate !
Sandrine from France
last friday we were in another new bigger room so he sat elsewhere, but i think he realized i was often looking in his direction and we locked eyes a few times. at the end of the class, he just stood there looking in my direction again. but i couldn't at least try to walk in his direction because a friend had something to show me, so he left.
tomorrow i think i'll get to see him again and i would really like to talk to him, but i've never flirted with a total stranger before and i'm kinda shy ! what should i do ?
i've been single for so long now, i might be willing to try something a little more adventorous than just doing nothing lol ! help me before i get too desperate !
Sandrine from France

laury_smile...
When you're in a room of 300 people....it's hardly private!
Pianoguy suggests you saunter towards him (after class is over) and offer to buy him a latte or glace du chocolat? The point is....MAKE CONTACT! Then when you're sitting together without being "surrounded" by 298 other students....you can get to know each other better?
After that......WHO KNOWS?
Good Luck!
Pianoguy
Smile and say hello. That's contact enough.
This is TOOOOOOOOOOOOO easy. Do this: Walk up to him after your next class. Say, in what I expect will be a cute French accent, "Hi! My name's Sandrine. Did you catch the part about (some part of the lecture)?" If he says "yes," you can say "Can I call you to go over it? I'm having trouble with this class." (Remember, lying is good). If he says "no," you say "Me neither! Can I call you to go over it? It looks like we both could use some help."
A girl approaching a guy is a thousand times easier than a guy approaching a girl, and all you have to do is break the ice. Start ONE conversation, and thereafter each conversation naturally follows. Then you can ask to meet for lunch or something.