starting over

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Registered: 05-02-2001
starting over
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Wed, 04-05-2006 - 11:17pm
I'm 56 and separated for the past 11 months from a man I married twice for a total of 33 years. We still love each other but he's not happy living with me. We do lots together, everything but sex. I can survive the days but have had all the lonely nites I can stand. Problem is I don't know where to start. Bars, church and dating services are out of the question. During our divorce between marriages, I dated the only other guy I've ever been intimate with and he was a user. I'm a little gun shy. Any suggestions?
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Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: hwh50
Thu, 04-06-2006 - 1:25pm

For now maybe concentrate on enlarging your social circle vs meeting the one - volunteer activities, charities, courses, seminars, trips, hobbies - indulge your interests and in the course of doing this you should meet interesting people.


Good luck

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