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| Thu, 04-13-2006 - 6:04pm |
Ok - so i posted a thing about going on a blind date and its tonight and three hours before we planned on meeting for dinner...he calls me up and says "im uncomfortable with this blind date thing....my friends are having a barbecue. do you wanna meet up for that?" omg, so i said ok. And now im more freaking out because now i have to replan my outfit and on top of meeting him....meet all his buddies. YAY...(note the sarcasm...). I guess i have to get his buddies approval before he even decides to date me. This is a mess im telling you

Sorry, hon, that you didn't feel a luv connection. But I'm glad the guy was nice and you felt safe.
However, if I had read your post about meeting him at the bar-b-q first, I would have suggested that you stick to your original plans. Meeting up with a new man in the middle of all his friends would have been VERY intimidating for me. It's different if you met someone by chance at a party...
On a blind date, you want to be on equal footing with your date. That means you both get to be equally uncomfortable (smile) and you meet in neutral territory (a public restaurant or coffeeshop, etc.)
Alas, dating DOES suck. ;)