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| Thu, 04-27-2006 - 3:58am |
Somebody please offer me any form of advice and/or suggestions. I'd greatly appreciate it!!
Ok...to make a long story short: I've been thinking about my ex boyfriend ALOT lately! I'm soo confused, I dont know what I should do?! We were together for 2 years in college. We were each other's college sweethearts and first-loves. I broke up w/him out-of-the blue w/o a warning- nothing. I was confused, lost, scared - I was in a phase of soul-searching and wanting to be alone. I never told him any of this when I broke up w/him. He was devastated, heart-broken, and bitter. This was 5 years ago. We have always been in contact in some way or another, since we have mutual friends. Recently I apologized to him for the past. He replied by saying we have a love/hate relationship. What does that mean?? Two years ago he told my friends that we were soul-mates. I'm confused. I think I still have feelings for him. I think I might still be in love w/him, but I don't know what I should do. I've tried to ask him to hang out, but he'd only come out in group settings, not one-on-one w/me. there were times that he'd say he has plans w/a "friend." Nobody knows if he's seeing someone, but it doesn't seem like it to me. Should I move on? Or should I confess to him how I've been feeling about him? Will he reject me?? Is it worth the risk??
Ok...to make a long story short: I've been thinking about my ex boyfriend ALOT lately! I'm soo confused, I dont know what I should do?! We were together for 2 years in college. We were each other's college sweethearts and first-loves. I broke up w/him out-of-the blue w/o a warning- nothing. I was confused, lost, scared - I was in a phase of soul-searching and wanting to be alone. I never told him any of this when I broke up w/him. He was devastated, heart-broken, and bitter. This was 5 years ago. We have always been in contact in some way or another, since we have mutual friends. Recently I apologized to him for the past. He replied by saying we have a love/hate relationship. What does that mean?? Two years ago he told my friends that we were soul-mates. I'm confused. I think I still have feelings for him. I think I might still be in love w/him, but I don't know what I should do. I've tried to ask him to hang out, but he'd only come out in group settings, not one-on-one w/me. there were times that he'd say he has plans w/a "friend." Nobody knows if he's seeing someone, but it doesn't seem like it to me. Should I move on? Or should I confess to him how I've been feeling about him? Will he reject me?? Is it worth the risk??

clouds77...
PG's 2 cents:
A "love-hate relationship" is when friendship exists at a distance. You can communicate very well with another human being---providing you're not seeing that same person day-in and day-out!
The reason? When the two of you get too close too often...unpleasant sparks are likely to ignite!
While you may THINK a reconciliation is possible, it's obvious that the man you were with DOESN'T! So chalk this chapter of your life up as OVER...and move on to the next one!
Pianoguy