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| Wed, 05-03-2006 - 12:21am |
Hi Im a little new to this. Im a little comfused about a guy I met a while back. Mutual friends set us up. Basically we sat up all night and talked about nothing/everything. He seemed like a great guy. It was very nice but I wasnt ready for anything at the time because I had just got out of a relationship a few months prior and wanted some time to myself. However I thought about him all of the time.
Just recently we bumped into eachother while out with friends. Everything went well. We hung out all night. basically we both admitted to still "liking" eachother and made plans to go out. We spoke a few times the next day and he really seemed interested and happy to be talking to me not to mention excited about going out. He asked a few times in our conversations that day if I was really interested this time or was it the three martinis. LOL I said I was. We had a date planned for the next day.
The next day he called and said he was a little tired so I suggested that we do this some other time. He said ok and we would speak later on. But we didnt.
The next day I sent him a text saying hi. No reply. A couple of days later I sent him an email asking if everything was ok and if not he could tell me. It was no big deal. I just didnt want to feel uncomfortable the next time we ran into eachother which is inevitable. No reply again. Its been over a week...
I dont get it. Can someone explain to me what happened.
Just recently we bumped into eachother while out with friends. Everything went well. We hung out all night. basically we both admitted to still "liking" eachother and made plans to go out. We spoke a few times the next day and he really seemed interested and happy to be talking to me not to mention excited about going out. He asked a few times in our conversations that day if I was really interested this time or was it the three martinis. LOL I said I was. We had a date planned for the next day.
The next day he called and said he was a little tired so I suggested that we do this some other time. He said ok and we would speak later on. But we didnt.
The next day I sent him a text saying hi. No reply. A couple of days later I sent him an email asking if everything was ok and if not he could tell me. It was no big deal. I just didnt want to feel uncomfortable the next time we ran into eachother which is inevitable. No reply again. Its been over a week...
I dont get it. Can someone explain to me what happened.

No idea why, but when a person cannot be decent enough to at least reply and say they are not interested I thank my lucky stars that it didn't go any further. I think this is the most rudest and inconsiderate thing to do, and speaks volumes of what the person is really like.
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I don't know what is wrong with this guy and I can see how you wouldn't mind if he didn't want to go out with you but you needed a few words in response so there wouldn't be an uncomfortable situation if you ran into him again. However, he sounds like he has a bit of a character issue. All he had to say was that he is very busy or not ready for dating at the moment.
I may make a small notation, I understand that you were out with friends and having a great time, but 3 martinis, especially if they were large, may be more than you want to absorb when in the company of a dating prospect. Alcohol impairs ones ability to put their best foot forward.