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| Thu, 12-14-2006 - 8:49pm |
I have posted in the past about this guy I dated a couple of times about a year ago. He is the one who keeps calling out of the blue, forgetting my name and calling late at night, every few months. I always tell him NO because - he doesn't remember my name and calls too late at night.
Well, on the weekend I finally went out with him again. He made a point to know my name, and to call earlier So how can I refuse (and plus I still like him alot).
We had a good time (or I thought so). I'm going to just take it as it comes and not have too many expectations about him. I don't plan on calling him but I will go out with him if/when he calls again. I think he has to show me what he really wants.
But I am wondering what I should expect? I think his style is just plan on the go (no advance planning). I don't know if he is interested in me really, or he just wanted someone to go out with, what he wants from me, etc.
I guess what I'm asking is - what do I do? I like him but I don't want to get my hopes up.

You know, thats what I keep saying to myself - Hes looking for only friends.
But I haven't seen him in a year and I've always told him off. So I don't understand why he would still want to go out with me. I haven't been intimate with him either. He sort've said something off hand that gave me the impression he hasn't dated in the last year.
I know he works late and he calls when he gets home. I don't think I can fix that habit of his. But he DID call me earlier the last time. He knows I'll always refuse if he calls late.
Here I am making excuses for him and trying to find reasons that MAYBE he does like me...
So don't get your hopes up, then. If he calls and ask you out again, great; if not, oh well. As you say, he needs to show you what he really wants. Time will tell!!!
Sheri