I'm I just being a baby?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-11-2006
I'm I just being a baby?
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Sun, 12-17-2006 - 2:15am

My g-f of 9 months likes to play games. There really bothering me. I have told her before to cut it out and she still does it. Examples are calling one of my ex's and acting as if she wanted to be her friend. She will make up situation to test my patience and jealousy as if it was all a joke. She has pretended to break-up with me many of times and leaves me hanging for a day to call me back the next day as if nothing happened. She also loves to turn me on sexual and leave me hanging and claiming that it is fun to do it. like it is a joke. After a while it gets annoying.

I'm I just being a baby or is this terms for a break-up? Everything is great except for this aspect of her that leaves me to the point that I don't even want to be around her or call her.

Additionally, when we first meet she was very affectionate which I love. I did tell her that I wasn't use to it from most girls so she calmed it down. although, what I told her was not to stop it just to realize I'm not use to it. After asking and telling her I miss it to this day she doesn't act the same way!?!?! Is my g-f just too immature for me? I'm 28 and she is 23.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2006
Sun, 12-17-2006 - 12:39pm

This all depends on what you are willing to put up with and what kind of relationship you want. If you are willing to put up with her childish, immature and selfish behavior then stick it out, but if not cut her loose. I believe you teach people how to treat you and you have to decide if this is the lesson you want to teach some one about how you want to be treated.

YG

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-13-2006
Sun, 12-17-2006 - 1:13pm
seems 2 me like she likes to mess w/ you...basically i think its unfair to you and u should breakup w/ her and find someone who does not treat u that way bc the way she is treating you is like your a toy, she wants u play w/ u when she wants n then its fun to make you crazy like that. that seems really unfair to me and i would never want 2 be treated that way. you deserve better!
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2006
Sun, 12-17-2006 - 2:05pm

It sounds to me like she is way to immature for you. Who needs all the DRAMA? The stuff she is doing is not only a waste of your time - it's stupid. It's not nice for her to lead you on sexually either. That can be frustrating and just down right mean.

I say you dump her - out with the old - in with the new. LOL

Tonia