what is going on?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-17-2006
what is going on?
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Sun, 12-17-2006 - 10:44pm
Ok, well I've been dating a guy for over 10 months now, and in the beginning everything was great, but lately we've had sex less and less and now we hardly ever do. I've heard stories about his past and how often him and his ex's have had sex, and thats how we were in the beginning, but not anymore. Now when I bring it up, he has an excuse, he's tired, he's sore, he doesn't feel well, and I can' help but think that it's something going on with the relationship.. anyone know how to fix this? Or any advice on how to handle this?
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2006
In reply to: kbilo1
Tue, 12-19-2006 - 11:04pm

Sex in a relationship does slow down from the point it was at in the beginning, you just need to decide if it is just a natural slow down that happens in a relationship or if it is a real problem. Other than sex how is your relationship going? Has he been distant in other ways? Have you noticed him acting differently lately? The reason I ask is the lack of interest in sex can be a major red flag and I hate to say it but a sign of cheating. I would maybe be on the lookout for other signs of infidelity, because that could be the reason.

Good luck with evrything and I really hope it all works out!