need advice

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2006
need advice
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Mon, 12-18-2006 - 1:31am

So, I started talking to this guy that I slept with last Spring-I chose not to pursue a relationship with him then because he's 4 years younger than me (i'm 26). Well, I ran into him a few weeks ago, and we had one 1hr long conversation last week, the next day he came over, and we had sex. I should have followed my instincts because I was completely over this guy until recently-and of course he told me that he was very interested beyond sex and all this other crap...I am more angry with myself, but I am still pissed at him. Aside from a few text messages I have not heard from him in almost 5 days. I finally called tonight-but he did not answer and did not call back so...

Should I continue to call until I talk to him? Should I text him? I just want to let him know that he is immature, and to tell him a few other things. I'm sure he wouldn't care, but I have all this frustration building up inside of me and I don't want him to think he just fooled another girl. What do I do?

Help please argh!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2003
In reply to: corky81
Mon, 12-18-2006 - 2:16pm
I think you shouldn't waste one more minute with this guy.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2006
In reply to: corky81
Mon, 12-18-2006 - 10:58pm
thanks chamey101-i think you are so right-i will definitely be ending whatever it was we had...this is a really great place to talk to others-friends are great, but it's nice to have an unbiased opinion. Thanks!
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Registered: 06-08-2006
In reply to: corky81
Tue, 12-19-2006 - 7:51am

Your moving on will tell him he didn't fool you. He's is a big boy and probably alreday knows what he has done and that you did not fall for it. Telling him off at this point may actually backfire in that he can just blame you because you got angry. You know the old "hysterical woman" stereotype. There is another poster on these boards that always advises writing unsent letters, which is a great way to vent without actually having to argue with the person you are venting about.

good luck,
YG