should I call? or wait
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| Mon, 01-01-2007 - 9:47pm |
I was kind of seeing a guy in college, but it never went anywhere because I left to study abroad and we kind of went our ways. We stayed in touch here and there as friends but last weekend he invited me for drinks w/ he and a couple mutual acquaintances. It was fun and he kissed me and said he wanted to hang out again, so a few days later we hung out just the two of us, which was great. He was playful and affectionate, we talked about fun stuff we could do next time, and when we said goodbye he asked when we were hanging out next. We didn't pick a day because I forgot the 'rules' and blurted out "well I make my own work hours so I'm free whenever, just let me know!" (at least i've acknowledged my mistake)
Well, NYE I texted him just to see if he was out in the same city, he texted back nope sorry, and an hour or so later he called me. I don't know if he was drunk, because I really was, and he asked again when we were hanging out next- again we didn't make a plan but he told me he'd call me the next day and I can't quite remember but I think I said OK you do that because I'm not calling you! (and now I know never to pick up a cute guy's call while smashed). Oh, and he put his buddy on the phone in the beginning and the kid said he'd heard good things about me...but who knows.
OK so he hasn't called....do I call him later in the week? probably not.. any advice? thoughts? ugh i was so happy being single but the thought of maybe trying this again intrigues me..

I would let him call you, and I'd make a mental note that he didn't call when he said he would. Now, granted, he may have been drunk when he said it and not remember, but IMO that's no excuse.
Sheri
Do you want to know he's really interested in you, or do you want to always wonder if he only responded to you because you prodded him into doing so?
Of course he could decide to ignore you...that's very naive to think that because you've known each other for a long time he wouldn't do that. People behave differently in romantic relationships than they do in friendships.
Sheri