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| Wed, 01-03-2007 - 11:22am |
So i went on my first date in like a year with someone thats a friend of a friend, i previously had met and talked to before. We had a great time and all that jazz, ended the nite with a simple kiss. He even did the future talk...next date and whatnot, and showed a lot of interest in who i am, and said how interested he was in me. (previously to goin out we had a great long phone conversation)...so....after the date he called me the next morning to chat and said that he'll call me back later, he never did. i texted him have a happy new year that nite, and havent heard from him vocally since. we myspaced a message or 2 back and forth, when i asked him if hed be interested in grabbin a drink and shooting some pool and he said he'd "be out thursday"......confusion?
why show so much of an interest and then be like non-existant? ive been outta the game for a while...but is that what men do nowadays? maybe thats why i stopped goin out with them! ha....anyways, i dont really care if i have a relationship with the guy, actually i didnt really see it goin anywhere in the first place. but he is still a friend of a friend and i wouldnt mind just shooting some pool and chillen with him, friendly stuff...i dunno....i guess i over think things....what do you think?

I agree with lightandbright, you put the ball in his court, now give him a chance to ask you out. If he doesn't then you know that he really is not interested. Sometimes men will do the future talk thing on a first date to be polite. I have a rule that I go by, if I don't have firm plans for a second date at the end of the first date, then I assume that there will be no second date. That way, I am not let down if the second date does not happen and if it does, then it is a pleasant surprise.
Good luck,
YG
YG
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