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| Wed, 01-10-2007 - 5:24pm |
I met the guy Im dating online (match.com) the beginni gof December, and weve been dating ever since. We get along great, everything seems fine (which it normally always does in the beginning). I removed my profile the week I met him, and he said he removed his, that he "found what he was looking for and doesnt need to look any more" So the next day I checked, and his profile was gone, which made me happy.
2 weeks ago, I checked, just to see, and it was online again. I asked him about it, he said that unlike me, he prepaid for 3 months, and his friend was using it. But MY guys pictures were still up there with all HIS information. He insisted his friend was the one using it. Well my guy went away for new years, and when he came home, his pictures from new years were posted on there. His NEW pictures. Why would he go through the trouble of putting those new pictures up. I don tknow what to say to him now. I want to believe him. but in the pit on my stomach I feel like hes still surfing the dating site for his own personal use. =(
2 weeks ago, I checked, just to see, and it was online again. I asked him about it, he said that unlike me, he prepaid for 3 months, and his friend was using it. But MY guys pictures were still up there with all HIS information. He insisted his friend was the one using it. Well my guy went away for new years, and when he came home, his pictures from new years were posted on there. His NEW pictures. Why would he go through the trouble of putting those new pictures up. I don tknow what to say to him now. I want to believe him. but in the pit on my stomach I feel like hes still surfing the dating site for his own personal use. =(

Yeah...he's lying to you, sorry.
I would say, "sorry, this isn't working for me, take care"...that is, assuming that honesty is important to you.
Sheri
I'm with Sheri... the proof is in the pudding unfortunately. This guy tells you it's for his friend yet has updated pics? Unfortunately girl, I think you have your answer... the only question is: what will you do with it?
You deserve better, period, end of story.
And as an aside, why don't you come over to the Online Dating board? We'd love to have you there...