How can i get him back?
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| Tue, 01-30-2007 - 5:36pm |
I went out with this guy for 10 months and was totally in love with him and still am. We met at university but he lives abroad.While we were in a relationship he visited me all the time.
The thing is a few months ago we had an argument and he split up with me, saying that he wants to be alone and doesnt want to be in a relationship. But then he keeps calling me and saying he just wants to be friends but at the same time asks me if im seeing anyone. He says he doesnt want to be together but keeps saying that he still cares for me, that im the nicest girl hes ever met and he even rings up for phone sex. After getting his way he still makes it clear he does not want a relationship but at the same time doesnt want me to think that he is playing with my emotions and tells me that he still cares for me and wants me to be alrite. He then says i shud be wid someone that treats me right and that he wants me to move on.
But how can i move on when he still says he cares?How can someone care about you and not wanna be in a relationship?How can someone want sex from you and not wanna be with you?
I argue wid him and say that he only wants to be single so he can get wid other girls and he is using me. He then insists that it isnt true and that he just wants to be alone and not in a relationship with anyone.Every time that i tell him not to ring me ever again he does, and if i dont answer he texts me or leaves a voicemail, leading me to belive that he does actually still have feelings. The big problem is that i want to make him realise that maybe we shud be together.(am i being stupid?)
He says that he would like me to go and see him and when i threaten that i might start seeing someone else and take them with me he says no(even tho he says we r just friends). He also said once that he didnt think he could talk to me again if i was seeing someone else.How do i make him jealous without pushing him away so that he realises he does want to be with me after all? Please help.
It has been nearly a year now since we split up and i still love him even after everything he has done. I cant bear being with anyone else. I always find myself telling him this. I really want him back but dont want him to think that im desperate and just easy to come back to. Is making him jealous the answer? I dont want to push him away. But how can i make him jealous if he lives so far away?
