sick and tired of this going no where!!
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| Mon, 02-05-2007 - 2:12am |
ok so here's the deal...
i've been seeing this guy(i'll call him "brad") for about a month now.its nothing serious yet although i would like it to be.we have hung out and stuff but it seems like its almost it a rut.there has been several occaions where he has came out and said that he wants to be with me but he doesnt know.well last night he called me and we got on the subject how my friends and family think i should stop talking to him all together.for some reason he got a little upset because when i told him this he said he had a right to know what was said and so forth.well i told him and he told me the reson he hasnt pushed us to get serious is because he's insecure about relationships.i understand completely..i mean who hasnt been screwed over at least once? so we talked a bit more and we seemed to cover a little more stuff.well i got off the phone with him and i honestly didnt think he wasnt going to call me and that he just fed me a bunch of crap...but i was wrong.he called me just to talk.so i what i baiscally need advice on his how do i go about with this...i mean i like him and he said he shares the same feelings but there is like this hump we need to get over before it goes any further.so what are your suggestions...
oh did i forget to mention...he's a virgin..yea hard to believe in this day and age but he is or so he tells me.i try not to stress over it but i dont know what to think on that topic right there...so if someone could give me some advice i would appriciate it..thanks!!!

Did you seriously have this kind of discussion with him after only a month?