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| Mon, 02-05-2007 - 12:26pm |
Ok I'm sure this is totally lame but here goes... This bar/club that I dance at most Saturday nights has the cutest bouncer, which normally I wouldn't even consider because well he's at work and getting hit on at work (especially at a bar) is kind of inappropriate I think. Maybe I'm wrong. But anyways... I have quite a crush, been going on for a couple of months now, so I always send sidelong glances, make eye contact, smile. So I catch his eye fairly frequently... but he's working so I never go speak to him because.. well he's doing his job and I don't want to be one of those girls but at the same time there isn't anywhere else I'll have the opportunity to talk to him... Should I just let it go and enjoy the eyecandy or is there a way to chat him up without being totally ridiculous hitting on a guy at work?

dixibella...
Pianoguy noticed that you didn't indicate if the place you dance at has a policy about dating other employees? PG thinks that's where you should begin!
There are professionals out there who can appreciate beautiful women, but not to the point where they wish to DATE them!
And this might be the reason 'your bouncer buddy' is keeping his distance from you?
Pianoguy
Unlike PG, I'm not going to assume that by dancing, you mean you work there
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