relationship taboo or not?
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relationship taboo or not?
| Mon, 02-05-2007 - 11:05pm |
a co worker has showed some interest in me. we work in the same office. should i pursue it or not?
| Mon, 02-05-2007 - 11:05pm |
IT'S FUNNY YOU WOULD ASK THIS AT THIS TIME ON HERE TOO CAUSE I NOW HAVE A BOYFRIEND THAT IS A CO-WORKER WITH ONE OF MY LONG TIME FRIENDS AND SHE HAS BEEN DIVORCED FOR TWO YEARS NOW AND TURNED INTO A WILD SEX AHOLIC (DOING THINGS FOR REAL THAT SHE AND I ONLY JOKED AND LAUGHED ABOUT WHEN SHE WAS HITCHED). AND SHE GOES TO WORK AND TELLS MY BOYFRIEND ABOUT HER SEXUAL ESCAPADES AND OF COURSE BEING A VERY SEXUAL, YOUNG, SWEET PACKAGE HIMSELF, HE POPS A LOLLIPOP SOMETIMES LISTENING TO HER TALK ABOUT IT. DIRTY TALK INTEREST MOST MEN. I KNOW THIS CAUSE I CAUGHT HIM ONE DAY THINKING ABOUT WHAT SHE HAD SAID AND HE WAS GIVING SOME THOUGHT TO SUGGESTIONS SHE HAD TRIED, (WHICH THAT DIDN'T PAN OUT TO GOOD BY THE END OF THE CONVERSATION.)IN ANY CASE SHE TENDS TO GET A LITTLE FREAKY WHEN OUT AMONGST THE PUBLIC DRINKING, SHE HAS NO BREAST, BUT LOVES TO SHOW ALL THE GUYS. MY GUY EXCLAIMED THAT HE WAS THE ONLY GUY IN OUR TOWN WHO HASN'T SEEN THEM. I BECAME VERY FURIOUS WITH HIM AND TOLD HIM HE HAD BETTER NEVER ASK AND TURN HIS HEAD IF SHE EVEN THOUGHT ABOUT SHOWING HIM. THIS WOULD MAKE ME MIS-TRUST HIM AND WONDER WHEN THEY WERE AT WORK ALONE AS SOMETIMES HAPPENS, IF ANYTHING MIGHT HAPPEN THAT SHOULDN'T. AND SECONDLY I TOLD HIM THAT THEY HAD BOTH JUST THEN MADE ME GO THRU SOMETHING SIMILAR IN WHICH AN X DID THAT WITH ANOTHER FRIEND WHICH COST US A MARRAIGE.
SO SORRY THIS IS SO LONG BUT IF IT CAN HAPPEN TO SOMEONE IT CAN HAPPEN TO SOMEONE ELSE. AND BELIEVE ME I'VE HEARD THE WERE JUST FRIENDS JUNK BEFORE TOO. AH NO!!!!! TO THAT ONE TOO.
LEARNED MY LESSON
It's good to give this some thought beforehand.