should i date my best friend?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-14-2007
should i date my best friend?
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Wed, 02-14-2007 - 7:58pm
i have been good friends with a guy for7 years
we have been sleeping together for 3 months and kept it a secret
now i want to be his girl out in the open when we are alone he is very affectionate but when we go out with other frinds im just a friend . yet he doesnt let me pay for anything he opens doors, pulls out chairs yada yada yada and he is always telling me how his family really loves me and thay think we are together our friends joke with him and refer to me as his girlfriend so what the heck is going on why doesnt he want to make things official and be my boyfriend
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Registered: 05-15-2006
Thu, 02-15-2007 - 11:32am
Did you ever ask him? If you didn't, you should as soon as possible. Since you guys been friends for a long time, you should be able to ask him anything. If he doesn't feel the same about you being his girlfriend....Stop sleeping with him. You are too good to be anybody's FWB.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-15-2007
Thu, 02-15-2007 - 3:40pm
My guy did the same thing to me I told him why the secret the truth is he was shy but now he tells all that we are indeed a couple he is just a private person but its nice to be called his girlfriend and not just some friend he sees on the weekends LOL so ask him the same thing and go from there Good Luck 2 U