confused

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Registered: 03-04-2007
confused
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Tue, 07-10-2007 - 10:14pm

I posted this at the 30's board as I am almost 32. Pls help if you can, thanks.

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rl30lounge&msg=5330.1&ctx=2048

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2006
In reply to: luvs2run
Wed, 07-11-2007 - 12:54am

I definitely vote for weird. When he told you that he saw this differently than FWB did you explain to him why you perceived his behavior as FWB? Maybe he doesn't know why he came across that way.

Possibilities for movie and then no contact:
1)Is it possible that he got his feelings out of joint by you stating that you felt he was a FWB?
2)he is backing away because you stated you met a new person?
3)by going to the movies was he trying to prove a point that he could spend time with you without sex?

If you are curious then I'm sure you could call him. But if you are happy with the new guy, then just let it go.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2007
In reply to: luvs2run
Wed, 07-11-2007 - 7:41pm

Sorry if my post was confusing. When I told him I felt guilty, that's all I told him. It was kind of a lie because I didn't want to tell him the truth that I met someone. I really thought the other guy liked me, which now he doesn't. I accepted to see the movie with the FWB because that's when it starting going sour with the new guy and why not get to see a FREE movie and popcorn? I can keep my options open and see two guys at one time, although, that's not what I'm doing because no one is calling me now.

you should go back to the link at the 30's board and see what someone replied:

I saw a t-shirt and it said:

Men are dumb. Throw rocks at them.

Isn't that hysterical!!!???