girl has a prob w/ me goi. out w her

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Registered: 07-11-2007
girl has a prob w/ me goi. out w her
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Tue, 07-24-2007 - 9:00pm

My girlfriend I think has a problem with me going out with her, like nite outs. I brought it to her attention that I would like to meet her friends, who are mostly guys. I told her it makes me feel complex. I said I dont care if u go out with her one friend who is a guy. She had said "well u dont like intimate nites alone with me and I said yes I love those nights but we need to go out too"

She told me u met Katie who is her roomate and I said "that ur roomate though". Her cousin and sister are coming down from PA for a few days are planning to go out and I dont think she will invite me. I dont know if this was a smart move but I talked to her cousin on myspace and she said she will see me when she will come down and I said I hope she will invite me. She basically said why wouldnt she. But i dont think she knows how she is and Im thinkin she will want to take them out with her guy friend. I kinda beat it around the bush and told her that I dont live in VA Beach and Shay(girlfriend) feels bad on having me to drive and said if Im not around tell her to call me b/Im not doing anything and Im not. I said that so it wouldnt sound weird.

I know she isnt cheating on me but I feel really down that she does this.

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Registered: 11-30-2006
Wed, 07-25-2007 - 2:54pm
You cannot change her behavior, only yours. You can either try to reason with her, accept her the way she is, or break up and move on.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 07-26-2007 - 1:40pm
How long have you been together?