Refused a date. Big mistake?
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Refused a date. Big mistake?
| Wed, 08-08-2007 - 12:33pm |
I recently got asked out by a cute guy at work and I told him I would see if I could get work off. I was really planning on going out with him, until my friend who has heard more about him than me overheard my plans. She immediatly warned me he is just a jerky playboy who wants to use me for one night. I was crushed but still wanting to go so badly, it feels like ages since I've been asked out. So the next day I just told him I couldn't get work off, and the interactions between us since that time have been strange. I first avoided him at all costs for the next few days, then I tried talking to him the following week. He kind of snapped at me, because I suddenly started talking to him but I changed the subject to the event he wanted to take me to and he said he just took his neice and that I somehow hexed him because he was also refused by five other women after me. So we still smile and wave at each other everyday at work. But I can't still help but feel I still really screwed up. What should I do?

Uh you 'hexed' him? And broken up as he was by your refusal he still managed to immediately ask out 5 other women? This does not off the cuff sound like amazing boyfriend material... I wouldn't grieve but I would get out there and try to meet some nice guys