Number of past partners?
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Number of past partners?
| Sun, 08-19-2007 - 1:20pm |
So, my boyfriend and I somehow got in the conversation of how many each other has slept with. He told me his number, and I told him how many guys I have slept with. The number of girls he's slept with kind of surprised me a little, as I thought it was a little high, and vice versa. But then again, the other part of me was a little surprised, since I actually thought it was a little higher. He is seven years older than me, and both of us have only had about two serious relationships each.
Still, I now regret asking him, and I also regret telling him how many partners I have been with. :(
Just out of curiousity, are there couples out there that have told each other how many each one has slept with, and if so, what was your reaction?
Thanks,
C

Don't ask a question to which you cannot handle the answer.
There is NOTHING you can do about how many partners you (or he) has "already" been with. However , there is something you can do about how many partners you are with in the future.
Thanks for your response.
Can I ask if you've ever been uncomfortable with the number one of your boyfriends has given you? Or were you able to deal with it?
Ha ha, didn't need to ask as he told me himself - 'stopped counting at around 180'. LOL. He wasn't lying either - have proof. What can you do? He's 40, tall dark, gorgeous and Italian LOL. I am no saint myself with my ehm..around 50 I thhink lol, at 36, and told him so - if anyone can deal with it, he can, and does. I lovingly call him 'prostitute' sometimes - he really likes it. Believe it or not, I don't mind at all- it's a turn on for me. Makes him more of a man in my eyes.