how to not to fall in love
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how to not to fall in love
| Mon, 08-27-2007 - 2:06am |
I am now seeing a guy who is 6 years younger than me. he is 26 y/o and im 32 y/o..i know at beginning there is nothing serious about us...we have been seeing for 2 weeks but we never talk about what is our relationship..last weekend we spent the whole weekend together. On saturday i cooked dinner and invited some friends. he was there with me. Yes i like him. i wanna keep relationship with him...but i don't want to fall in love. should i stop seeing him? or should i keep seeing but i have to repeat myself all the time..not to fall in love...not to fall in love.. :(

I think the only way to do it is to not see him so often and to try to keep the romantic behavior to a minimum.
It also helps to keep fresh in your mind a list of the reasons why it won't work out in the long run between the two of you (or even better write it down and review it daily).
But even then, I'm not sure it's really possible unless you keep up very strict boundaries.
Sheri