affair w/ same man 2 divorces later

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Registered: 11-27-2007
affair w/ same man 2 divorces later
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Tue, 11-27-2007 - 9:59pm
Here's my story.
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Registered: 04-02-2007
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 10:27am

How can you love him or he love you? You must have respect, honesty and trust to really love someone... neither one of you have this for yourselves, each other, spouses or children... or you wouldn't be cheating and lying....

Think of what you are teaching your children, they are the ones that are really going to lose in this situation. Do you want them to grow up thinking it is ok to cheat or to be cheated on, because that is what they are learning? You need to work on yourself, love and respect yourself before you can receive that from someone else.

You will find more support from the My Affair Support board.

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Registered: 10-21-2004
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 8:59pm

<< Told me two weeks ago he wants to have a baby with me because time is running out .....age wise...

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Registered: 11-27-2007
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 9:45pm

Starbuck70,


You're right on.

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Registered: 10-21-2004
Thu, 11-29-2007 - 4:18pm

<< Yeah, I should have made an appointment with my therapist, huh?