The best 1st Xmas gift you ever gave?

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Registered: 10-18-2007
The best 1st Xmas gift you ever gave?
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Thu, 12-06-2007 - 11:50am

I've been dating a man for about 2 1/2 months. We haven't talked about being exclusive yet and aren't in a rush to "make it official" right now,

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Registered: 11-10-2007
Thu, 12-06-2007 - 2:34pm

First gift with under 3 months of dating ...hmm...


1)music is good - a cd or a few cds of his favorite band's music.

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Registered: 09-26-2005
Fri, 12-07-2007 - 1:00pm

"Hmmmm.....what can I give him that says, 'I've enjoyed spending time with you. I like you but I don't love you just yet'?" :-)


This is what I was just thinking this morning because I'm in a similar situation having been dating someone for a few weeks and Christmas coming up. Holidays and birthdays create a challenge when you're in a new relationship. You want to give "enough"...no more, no less.


Personally, I like giving books. If he reads (anything from bathroom brain teaser books to war and Peace), this is a gift that will give you a chance to be thoughtful and

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Registered: 01-12-2005
Fri, 12-07-2007 - 6:35pm

Best first Christmas present was something that in and of itself, no big deal, but because it came out of a brief conversation we'd had, he knew I was paying close attention to his likes.

Myspace Codes

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sun, 12-09-2007 - 12:11pm
tix to sold out Springstein concert
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Registered: 12-11-2007
Sun, 12-16-2007 - 2:07am

a miniature card with artwork from our favorite artist on the front that we'd seen in person at a museum on our third date.