What does he want?

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Registered: 08-13-2006
What does he want?
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Tue, 12-11-2007 - 7:33pm

Hi, I just need to know the thinking behind this married man.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 12-11-2007 - 8:51pm

It sounds like he's hoping you're a woman who doesn't mind having sex with a married man.


I'd keep my distance from him if I were you.


Sheri

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2006
Tue, 12-11-2007 - 9:26pm

See the thing is I had asked him out before when I wasn't sure if he was married.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Tue, 12-11-2007 - 10:31pm
Hey reg, this guy is still role playing with you, huh?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2007
Tue, 12-11-2007 - 10:42pm
You feel what you feel.... But if you honestly want it to end, then you end it, you control your life no one else....Be up front with him when he brushes your hand that it is not appropriate since he is married or any other flirting, stop responding to it. YOU can put a stop to it, if you want.
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Registered: 09-26-2005
Fri, 12-14-2007 - 11:16am

If it's not a matter of him trying to figure out if you're willing to sleep with him even though he's married, then it sounds to me like maybe he just gets a little high from the attention. Maybe you make him feel attractive, or you are a source of attention he is not otherwise getting. Who knows? People have all kinds of reasons for flirting, some of which they probably

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Sat, 12-15-2007 - 4:42pm
He's married. Don't be receptive to his flirting - tell him since he has a wife you don't feel its appropriate
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