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| Tue, 12-11-2007 - 8:27pm |
I have another question that I'm wondering about.
I dated a guy a while ago.
| Tue, 12-11-2007 - 8:27pm |
I have another question that I'm wondering about.
I dated a guy a while ago.
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Oh, I remember that guy! It sounds like he's missing being able to see you occasionally on his terms.
OMG!
Yeah...I have had to deal with this myself - even just recently - so I understand what is happening to you.
I'm very petite too.
I used to be told that I am too trusting or gullible...when the correct vibe I was sending out was only that I was a decent person.
I just had t his happen to me this week.
I dated a man like this once before. When we were together, he didn't seem to care about me and it seemed like I was giving so much more to the relationship, but as soon as I was gone I was the most important person in his life. I took him back once or twice and we had those awkward in between periods when we were "friends" that persisted like this for four years. When I finally cut him loose once and for all, I immediately became much happier and much more centered because I also eliminated a lot of drama and time spent contemplating my worth. I knew I deserved better than what he was giving me. I know I deserved more than all of his apologies and promises that were broken. And now that it's been a few years since our last break-up, I can't for the life of me remember what kept me by him for so long. I guess I thought that since it was obvious to me that I was the best person he had in his life that one day he would wake up and see it. He knew that I had this weakness and used it to his advantage.
I guess my point is that while I think optimism and belief in other people (and the ever elusive concept of love) is commendable, there comes a point when enough is enough. And once you reach it, you have to stick to your guns or else you might find yourself starting over.
There's better out there for you!
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