Any chance of getting ex-bf back?
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Any chance of getting ex-bf back?
| Wed, 12-12-2007 - 2:21am |
s family wanting me to know them, did so many great things.Please help and many thanks!
Edited 12/18/2007 1:12 am ET by girlinlove1972
Edited 12/18/2007 1:12 am ET by girlinlove1972

"he tells me sometimes he wishes I would date others so that he would want me more( he's had a history of becoming obssessed with women who cheat on him)"
Not a great candidate for a long term relationship girlinlove1971.
Regardless of whether or not he loves you...he has an emotional problem that could continue to be a barrier for you long term.
I agree wholeheartedly with snafu. It sounds like there are some deeper issues going on with this guy that could interfere with his ability to build a healthy relationship right now.
It wouldn't hurt to date again when you are ready. Maybe he'll have some time to grow up and come to his senses, and if not, I'm sure you will find someone who will appreciate you fully and completely. You deserve no less.
"I told him I wanted to see other people an"
"I said I will do it but I don't want to give up my ability to date others.."
Really what do you expect him to do? Twice you have told him you wanted to see other people, maybe he decided to give you your wish... If you really didn't mean that when you said it then it shouldn't have been said, even in jest. I wouldn't stay with someone that said they wanted to see other people unless it was a mutual decision between us, that we both see other people.
Continue on with your therapist and work on yourself, don't worry about what he might or might not do...Concentrate on you, because until you get your insecurities sorted out you will continue to have these kinds of problems, doesn't matter if it is with him or someone else. Good luck