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What's up with this?
| Thu, 12-13-2007 - 11:06pm |
Problem: Every guy I meet wants to invite me over to their house
| Thu, 12-13-2007 - 11:06pm |
Problem: Every guy I meet wants to invite me over to their house
When I read your post a few points came to mind.
-It might never occur to a guy that we need to be especially careful as single women. Safety with strangers is not as much of a concern for men. Sad reality of the day we live in. So it could be ignorance on their part.
-They just want sex and are pretty bold about setting the stage for it. Not exactly the most gentlemanly approach.
-They are broke and don't want to spend any money on dates, and lack the creativity to set up a not-so-expensive-but-still-nice date. Dating men in their 20s can sometimes be awkward for this reason.
Still, three guys in a row??? That's a record!
Based on all of the scenarios you posted, I'd have to say these men are either looking for a low maintenance woman or trying to get to know a woman to determine compatibility without spending lots of money.
Thanks for the advice everyone, I think you're all right!
Well, the first guy (Blockbuster Night) did actually take me out twice.
I agree. It definitely does sound fishy - you want to be with someone who will respect where you're at and the pace you want to take to get more intimate.
~Di
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Something I've found very helpful in meeting new guys is my "no number" policy with strangers. When I first meet someone, I will either trade email addresses or myspace ids. I do not give out my number to strangers anymore. I've found this approach to be a lot easier to manage. It sure beats giving my number out to someone who could very well be a lunatic!