Date or just dinner?

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Registered: 07-03-2007
Date or just dinner?
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Sat, 12-15-2007 - 8:59pm

To make a long story short, I've been talking to this guy, whose a close friend of one of my girlfriends on instant messaging for awhile. Yesterday we played the "question game" and he asked me a few questions that hinted he was interested. So I took a chance and asked if he'd like to get together sometime. He said he'd love to. So, tonight he asked me when we were going to get together and set a date.

The only thing is I'm thinking its a date, but am not sure if he thinks its a date or just a friendly dinner. My other friend suggested I simply ask if its a date, or just dinner.

Should I ask him, or wait it out?




Edited 12/15/2007 8:59 pm ET by faithful2727
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Registered: 12-11-2007
Sat, 12-15-2007 - 9:20pm
No, that would be awkward and overanalyzing.
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Sat, 12-15-2007 - 10:31pm
Amen.

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Registered: 11-10-2007
Sun, 12-16-2007 - 12:12pm

I would take this dinner as a friendly dinner with potential *wink*.

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Registered: 07-03-2007
Sun, 12-16-2007 - 1:39pm

thanks for all the advice :-)

The questions game is when you just take turns asking each other questions to get to know one another.

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Registered: 11-10-2007
Sun, 12-16-2007 - 2:41pm
Have fun and enjoy dinner.
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Registered: 07-03-2007
Sun, 12-16-2007 - 4:52pm
yup-no rules. It can be fun.
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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sat, 12-22-2007 - 6:20pm
See how the evening goes - be a little flirtatious and see how he responds
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