hmmm... I too have been around and around about why some men don't want to just talk about something and be done with it....it's like a fear of compromise, or just a plain fear that the female will overreact...in any event i also hate being ignored when i just want to talk about something....i also seem to meet alot of the marinate guys, so i'll be intrested to see how others respond to what
Many men do not like to have closure conversations.
I've been there, the place where you make excuses. That's my take here. My opinion only. You deserve more respect from a former b.f.
Plus, in my book, calling someone a *friend* is a big deal.
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