Should I go deeper with him?
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| Sun, 12-16-2007 - 7:12am |
Hi everyone,I really like this board. It helps me a lot! Now I need some advice with this guy.
I am mostly sure that we like each other. Like,like to send text msg frequently,meaningless topics but we still enjoy. About two months ago he told me he broke up with his GF and he said that was good news. From then I begin to wonder if he wants me to be his GF. Besides, previously I was stuck in an unhealthy relationship with a 31 year old man so I also thought finding a BF at my age might be a good way to help me out and settle down. But I don't feel the urge to develope the relationship with him. I just like him, enjoy his words. And most of the time I send him msg then he replies. He seldom send me first.
Then yesterday, he sent one:" You girls really have poor memories. I'm so sad..." I was confused at first,didn't know what was wrong with him. Then I remember his birthday was in December so maybe yesterday was his birthday. I replied, asking if that was his birthday and he said yes. Then I said happy birthday to him, congratulations that he became a "man"(18 yrs old) and asked him if he wanted any present. I said I could give him one wish, one wish that I could fulfill for him. (I was thinking if he liked me enough or got what I meant, he might ask me to be his GF...) I also teased him that "I'm not your GF,how can you blame me for not remembering your birthday?" He just said this excuse sucks. And he would want to keep this wish until he think of one task for me to do. I thought I made it clear enough that I would want to be his GF? Because if he really wants, he could have said:" Then, be my girlfriend."
I don't know anything else I can do. I don't crave to be his

Are you sure you want to alter a 5 year friendship just because you would like to have a boyfriend,