Should I send him a message?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2007
Should I send him a message?
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Mon, 12-17-2007 - 6:13pm

Hi all!


There's this attractive guy that I've encountered several times at his job (car rental place).

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 3:16pm
If it is your style to make first moves then contact him however you like.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2002
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 4:45pm

Actually, I think I personally would be WAY more weirded out if someone contacted me at work when we'd never met even if we HAD met sorta kinda through work.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 9:13pm

hey vexer, they did meet:


"When I went to his workplace, there was "eye contact"...then, he was very helpful and friendly and he left a good impression."

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2002
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 9:21pm

Thanks, I read that perfectly fine.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 9:12am

Interesting, I would consider anyone who serviced my account or my needs at a place of business to have "met" me.

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Registered: 08-16-2005
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 12:58pm
Honestly I work for a rental car agency and that's what we are suppose to do, make eye contact and be happy, salespeople. If a customer contacted me I would be weirded out.

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Smile,

Deirdre

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Registered: 07-01-2005
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 1:07pm

Hi all!


Thanks for the advice. I actually didn't share that he was friendly because I thought that it meant anything. If we thought that everyone who was friendly to us had romantic interest, we'd be thinking that everyone from the mailman to the grocer liked us...I totally agree that people who work in customer service are supposed to be friendly...I guess I just included that just because....there was eye contact, though.


Anyway, I did message him on MS. He replied back, asking me how I'm doing...so, we have a conversation going. I'm not reading anything into it at all. He could turn out to be a MySpace chat buddy, a friend, or nothing at all! I'm ok with whatever happens. I'm just glad that I went ahead, stepped outside of my comfort zone, and took a chance.


Thanks again!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2002
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 1:11pm
Good for you!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 3:11pm

Have fun!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Sat, 12-22-2007 - 6:12pm
You could say hi, you were looking up people you've come across recently to see if they're on My Space and that it's nice "running" into him.
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