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Need a female's perspective
| Tue, 12-18-2007 - 11:16pm |
I am a single guy of 30. Dating has not been a huge part of my life thanks to my extreme shyness, so I guess it's safe to say I have no "game". Anywho... here's the facts.
I have been on one date in the last six years. During that time, not many ladies have expressed an interest in me. This consumes my thoughts daily.
About three weeks ago, I was contacted on Myspace by a very beautiful single mother of two. (12 & 2)
It didn't take long for her to give me her phone number, and we were talking

First off forget any idea you might have that she's out of your league. Obviously she isn't. You probably aren't even realizing what a great catch you are. Back when I was in my late 20's and trying to date, it seemed like all the men had crazy ex-wives they were dealing with and were paying huge parts of their income in child support and juggling custody arrangements. Men who didn't have all that baggage were wonderful to find. She's probably thrilled to find someone like you.
As to what her intentions are, that's something you'll have to find out for yourself. If she's looking for someone to help her co-parent and provide financial support, then you'll probably find that out fairly quickly.
It just sounds like she has a very busy life and is looking to connect with someone emotionally - but you and she are at different stages of life and maybe that is why you feel something is "wrong" with how she is getting to know you.
Just be yourself.