Should I break up with him over this ?
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Should I break up with him over this ?
| Fri, 12-21-2007 - 3:13pm |
I've been dating a guy from Montreal for about a month. Yesterday was his last night in France before going back to visit his family for a month, so we decided to spend it partying with some friends.
He arrived completely wasted with his best friend, they could barely stand up and were very, VERY annoying. After a while I went into the club to say hi to some friends while they stayed outside because they were too drunk to get in anyway. Then a friend told me that I should do something because my boyfriend kept hurting himself by falling down on the street.
When I found him, he was lying on the pavement, had thrown up everywhere and some guys were trying to take care of him. I took him back home, where he fell on the floor crying and repeating he was sorry. I wanted to stay with him at least to make sure he could catch the train to the airport which was only in 2 hours, but his best friend arrived still as drunk before and started calling me names, at which point I just got up and left because I couldn't stand them anymore. In short, it was a horrible and pathetic night, he and his friend were horrible to my friends, to me and were plain disrespectful to themselves.
Now he's gone back to Canada, and I don't know if I want to keep dating him after what happened. Things were going great between us but we were still getting to know each other. He managed to send me an email in the middle of his trip (his phone doesn't work outside of France), telling me he was sorry, that he misses me and really looks forward to seeing me when he comes back. He also said that he doesn't remember ANYTHING about what happened last night. Should I tell him so he understands why i'm so angry at him ? Can this sort of behavior be a one-time mistake or should I just stop dating him ?
He arrived completely wasted with his best friend, they could barely stand up and were very, VERY annoying. After a while I went into the club to say hi to some friends while they stayed outside because they were too drunk to get in anyway. Then a friend told me that I should do something because my boyfriend kept hurting himself by falling down on the street.
When I found him, he was lying on the pavement, had thrown up everywhere and some guys were trying to take care of him. I took him back home, where he fell on the floor crying and repeating he was sorry. I wanted to stay with him at least to make sure he could catch the train to the airport which was only in 2 hours, but his best friend arrived still as drunk before and started calling me names, at which point I just got up and left because I couldn't stand them anymore. In short, it was a horrible and pathetic night, he and his friend were horrible to my friends, to me and were plain disrespectful to themselves.
Now he's gone back to Canada, and I don't know if I want to keep dating him after what happened. Things were going great between us but we were still getting to know each other. He managed to send me an email in the middle of his trip (his phone doesn't work outside of France), telling me he was sorry, that he misses me and really looks forward to seeing me when he comes back. He also said that he doesn't remember ANYTHING about what happened last night. Should I tell him so he understands why i'm so angry at him ? Can this sort of behavior be a one-time mistake or should I just stop dating him ?

Hi,
Well, you have been dating him only for a month.
It's obviously disgusting, awful behavior and his "best" friend is a terrible influence on him.