am i being overly needy?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
am i being overly needy?
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Sat, 12-22-2007 - 7:44pm

I’m ticked off about Christmas for 2 reasons.


iVillage Member
Registered: 09-06-2007
Sat, 12-22-2007 - 8:01pm

Stop having sex with this man immediately.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-1999
Sun, 12-23-2007 - 9:14am

My first thought was - this guy isn't that interested in pursuing you and he isn't 'afraid' of losing you - he isn't doing his part to build and nurture the relationship. He is allowing you to do the work - and you do it! I suspect if you stopped calling and driving, you'd find out very quickly what his intentions are.


A man who is sincerely interested in a woman and WANTS to build a relationship with her does more than just show up - he is proactive and engaged. This guy is neither - he is just enjoying the benefits that you offer without having to do anything.


Choose better for yourself!

Toni

Toni

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Sun, 12-23-2007 - 1:17pm