update

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2006
update
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Wed, 12-26-2007 - 10:27am
good morning yall! i just wanted to give an update..i posted a discussion the other day called "question..please help." here is the update..he has not called! ugh im just so confused. i thought everything was going well. nothing really makes me more mad than when guys say they'll call at a specific time/day or whatever and they dont. i just cant help but think what it was that i did wrong. i wanted to text him so bad yesterday saying merry christmas but everyone was telling me not to. i was talking to one of my guy friends and he says that he will call when he wants some action. i dont know. i keep thinking maybe
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2006
In reply to: sadielove1
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 2:35pm

When a guy does not do what he says he will do (call, come by or whatever) it is a red flag for me. I may not next him right away, but if the behavior happens again, I let him know we're not a match. I don't date guys who aren't reliable enough to do what they say they will do.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
In reply to: sadielove1
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 6:32pm
I'm sure you did not do anything to cause him to not call.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: sadielove1
Mon, 12-31-2007 - 4:50pm

I also dislike it when someone says he will call and doesn't but I'd let it go for now. The holidays can be a crazy time . I doubt you did anything to turn him off. But yes it's rude

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